Winning Ugly Part 1:
The Good, the Bad, and
the Elephant Boy
By Steve Jamison
Steve Jamison is the co-author of Winning
Ugly: Mental Warfare in Tennis. Winning Ugly is the acclaimed, international best selling
instructional book, written by Jamison with Brad Gilbert, coach
of 1999 U.S. Open champion Andre Agassi. In this new series,
Jamison explains the principles of winning ugly,
using real stories from fierce, club level competitive matches - matches
that my be similar to the ones you have played yourself - all
recounted in his amusing, inimitable style.
Questions or comments? The author welcomes your visit his website
at www.winningugly.com
The Elephant Boy
Gregarious Tom
"Elephant Boy" Rudwall claims his girth (250 pounds)
is exceeded only by his mirth. On this particular tennis tournament
day his mirth would being sorely tested, as would the mettle
of his opponent. It's a predicament we can all learn from.
In a first round
4.5 match against a hard-working and stoic Seth Sokolov at the
San Francisco Tennis Club, "Elephant Boy" was cruising
to a quick victory: up a set and serving at 4-2. But, I get ahead
of the testimony. During the preceding set and a half, "Elephant
Boy" had exhibited his trademark barrage of generally, but
not always, good-natured exhortations and observations directed
both at himself and his opponent ("Seth, you've never hit
that shot before in your life!" or moaning "Ohhhh,
another let cord winner. You're the king of let cord winners!"),
and sarcastic praise - "I salute you, sir! I cannot beat
you!" - which would be accompanied with a prolonged military
salute.
Early on in the match the Elephant boy was
cruising but then things turned ugly
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This ongoing
clownishness was frequently interrupted by the sound of his racket
crashing into the court following missed shots. Sokolov seemingly
ignored the torrent of verbiage, needling, and racket slamming
tirades even though he was losing badly. Then things got ugly.
On game point at 4-2 in the second set, Sokolov called a ball
out that would have given Rudwall a 5-2 lead and put a lock on
the match. "Elephant Boy" sees the ball in and trumpets
forth his protest. In or out? Who knows, but back-and-forth sniping
ensues between the two players over the next games, including
charges of intentional hooking on the original disputed
call.
Quickly Rudwall comes unglued as he
continues to carp about the out call and loses the set, 6-4.
Match tied: one set apiece. Sokolov is on a roll. But, wait!
During the changeover, silent Seth quietly leaves the court and
reports to the tournament director's table. "My opponent's
behavior is just unacceptable. I'm retiring from the match."
Stunned - after all this is a so-called 'friendly' club event
- the tournament director offers to monitor the rest of the contest
and Seth reluctantly returns to the battleground.
Elephant boy in mock
salute after victory, but
did anyone really win?
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Where's the Official?
As the tournament official walks onto the
court, it's Rudwall's turn to be stunned. His behavior is being
questioned? "What about calling a ball out when it's in?"
he asks the newly arrived inspector. Walking over to the scene
of the alleged misdeed, Rudwall dramatically points to where
he believes the ball landed; fat on the line by his estimation.
Sokolov calmly watches with a look that says to the official,
"See what I mean?" Play continues with Rudwall unable
to get his mind back in the match until eventually he is down
three match points at 5-2. Now it's Sokolov's turn to dissemble.
Rudwall hangs on to win the match in a tiebreaker. However, in
reality, both players lose in a situation like this.
In WINNING UGLY: Mental Warfare in Tennis,
Brad and I (with later contributions directly from Andre Agassi)
focused on mental management rather than stroke production. Reason?
No matter how good your stroke production is, when your mind
melts down, your strokes do likewise. Knowing how to handle challenging
situations is the mark of a champion.
With Gilbert as his coach, these days Andre's
matches are anything but ugly.
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In this match,
Rudwall nearly blew an easy victory because he couldn't let go
mentally of a call he felt was incorrect. Seth nearly quit the
match because he didn't know how to deal with Rudwall's behavior.
Lesson(s) to be learned? Anytime you encounter questionable behavior
in a tournament (as Sokolov did) the remedy is simple: ask your
opponent to stop. If the behavior continues, simply ask for an
umpire to intervene. Don't wait until you're completely nuts.
If you encounter a call you disagree with (as Rudwall did), ask
your opponent if he or she is certain of it. If it happens again,
and again, simply ask for an umpire to intervene. It's sweet
and simple in both cases. Too often in tournaments griping and
grousing by you or your opponent will degrade the quality of
your mental management. When that happens - unless you're John
McEnroe - you'll usually lose. How do you spell 'relief'? U·M·P·I·R·E.
And, of course, it's even easier than that in non-tournament,
or 'social', matches. Find a new partner next time.
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