Theories of the Game
A Non-competitive Approach to Teaching
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The information and insights gleaned from these years of on-court observation and experimentation have led to the conclusion that a non-competitive based education system is, across the board, superior to a competitive based system.
Non-competitive education works better for players of all levels,
abilities,
and ages: it is easier and more nurturing for beginners to learn in this
environment; it is more supportive in helping players work through the
challenges and frustrations of intermediate play; it gives advanced
players
the opportunity, finally, to achieve their full potential; it allows
children
to learn in a nurturing environment; it gives couples the opportunity to
play
together in an environment which nourishes their relationship; and it
enables
seniors to continue to play the game, getting a great workout with less
stress and strain on their bodies, and without having to compete to feel
good
about themselves.
Long-term, a non-competitive education system produces better results.
Without any competition in the learning process, players gradually learn
how to be
successful in competition. A higher percentage of players succeed more
frequently, and with greater consistency than in a competitive system.
When
you know how to play the game, success is the “natural” outcome. Welcome
to the world of Effortless Tennis.
Like many small town boys growing up in the 1960’s, I played many
different
sports. The ‘60’s everybody talks about didn’t get to my hometown until
the
mid ‘70’s. Baseball and basketball were my first sports. From the very
beginning these activities were competitive. The general scenario was
that we
would practice as a team for a few weeks, and then we would start
playing
games against other teams. Although during practices there was some
drilling
going on, practices revolved mainly around competition; most drills
involved
some form of competition. When I got to tennis, at age fourteen, it was
the
same thing; they showed us how to hit each of the strokes, let us
practice a
little while, taught us how to keep score, and had us start playing
matches.
Tennis, like most other activities in life, has been based on a competitive model of learning and behavior. You compete against an opponent to prove who is better, who is the winner. Psychologist Alfie Kohn calls it “mutually exclusive goal attainment.” I can’t win if you don’t lose. This is how we demonstrate our ability and worth in this culture. Competition starts almost from day one of our involvement with any activity; in some subtle form or another, it’s always us against them. People say, “well that’s how life is, it’s one big competition.” That can be true, but where does it say that we throw babies into the lion’s den and let them work it out for themselves. This is, in essence, what we are doing to our children from their earliest days, if we put them into competition before they have the skills to succeed. This is not the ideal approach to having people learn, yet this is how we do most of our learning. No matter how “harmless” it seems, it is a competition; since these kids or adults don’t have any of the skills necessary to succeed yet, they will, however subtly it might be, begin to tighten up around learning and performance, leading to experiencing less success and enjoyment.
Despite criticism from many, Richard Williams refused to allow his Serena and Venus to compete in junior tournaments. |
Naturally coordinated people, or people who have had the opportunity to
practice other similar skills in the past, will be able to do well
enough in
competition, even without having the skills.
Somebody
has to win; unfortunately, even the winner’s development will be limited
because his or her winning has more to do with luck than skill. As for
the
people who aren’t coordinated, or didn’t have the opportunity to
practice
other similar skills in the past, a competitive approach to education
can be
devastating, not only to their ability to learn, but also to their
self-esteem, and long-term development potential. We need to look at
what we
are doing with our underlying approach to education and see if it is
what
works best to help every individual get the best from themselves.
In actuality, competition or competitive behavior is a learned
characteristic. We are taught to be competitive; it is the subtext of
most
every lesson we learn. In 1937 Mark A. May and Leonard Doob wrote,
"Human
beings by original nature strive for goals, but striving with others or
against others are learned forms of behavior. Neither of these two can
be
said to be the more genetically basic, fundamental or primordial." To
this
can be added the thoughts of sports psychologists Thomas Tutko and
William
Bruns, "People are not born with a motivation to win or to be
competitive. We
inherit a potential for a degree of activity, and we all have the
instinct to
survive. But the will to win comes through training and the influences
of
one's family and environment." The big issue with believing that
competition
is part of our human nature is that it allows people not to take
responsibility for their actions. The normal response is, “It’s not my
fault.
It’s just human nature, and I can’t do anything about it.” This is the
easy
way out, but it is not the truth.
The fact that people find it difficult to think there is any alternative
to
competition shows how deeply programmed into our subconscious this
belief is.
Kohn observed, “That most of us fail to consider the alternatives to
competition is a testament to the effectiveness of our socialization. We
have
been trained not only to compete but to believe in competition.”
Sociologist
David Riesman stated, “First we are systematically socialized to
compete—and
to want to compete—and then the results are cited as evidence of
competition’s inevitability.”
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The real problem is not competition per se, but premature competition. Premature competition is any form of competition before a person ‘owns’ the necessary skills of whatever activity they are engaging in. What happens in a competition is that the goal shifts from learning to winning.
"It appears that when people are instructed to compete at an activity,” researcher Edward Deci observed, “they begin to see that activity as an instrument for winning rather than an activity which is mastery oriented and rewarding in its own right."
As soon as it becomes a contest, people do whatever they have to do in order to win—winning is all that matters. From what I have seen in tennis, people forget about their strokes and footwork, the mechanics, and do whatever seems to work to try and win. This approach can sometimes be successful in the short-term, but long-term it is not a path for consistent success or reaching our potential.
When people get into competition before they know how to do what they are trying to compete in, not only does it severely limit their physical skills, it also greatly inhibits psychological development. Competition is an advanced aspect of any activity and needs to be entered into only after the basic skills have been mastered.
Premature competition is the primary cause not only for lowering performance levels, participation, potential, and enjoyment, it also undermines long-term psychological health by inadvertently promoting less than optimal emotional states and behaviors such as uncertainty, anxiety, fear, anger, sadness, hyper-aggression, cheating, stealing, lying, an inability to trust, avoidance, and poor sportsmanship—just to name a few.
Everyone has experienced or witnessed many examples of these negative
side-effects. If someone can not be successful on her/his own talents, and
they know that they must win to be valued, which does seem to be the
implied message in this society, then there is a strong pull to do
whatever is needed to win; countless examples of this behavior are seen on
a daily basis in professional sports, business, and politics. This
behavior is not a good example for kids. If any of these above emotions or
behaviors are happening while playing, it is preventing the achievement of
peak performance. What I have shown is that when competition is removed
from the learning process these negative emotions and behaviors gradually
begin to disappear. Stress levels go down, while enjoyment and performance
improves.
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