Mental Toughness
Anti-Choking Remedies
Take it from me, choking is probably
the biggest reason players don't like playing tournaments. How often do
you see a seemingly talented player completely fall apart under pressure
situations? It's awful. Everyone has been plagued by this sensation, and
I'm no exception. A "real player," however, can usually overcome
these feelings, work past them and play decently--but not always.
What's happening when you're choking is that your mind begins to wander
to all kinds of things--usually the drama of the match--other than focusing
on the ball. You're double faulting, missing easy returns, sitter-volleys
and so forth. It can get so bad that you feel as though you can't hit a
decent shot. Your confidence then dissipates--and once that happens, it's
over. Directly opposed to the feeling of "the zone," you have
now entered the "flail zone."
Recently my friend Peter told me of his recent trip to the flail-zone
in a random men's doubles match. He explained how he could not hit a ball
in the court, and he even knew that his game wasn't coming back during that
match. His experience made things all the more interesting when a few weeks
ago I played an a mixed-doubles exhibition match at my club (where I'm the
pro).
The club members came out to watch the four of us who were all 5.0 and
up players. Unfortunately, I probably hadn't played a competitive doubles
or singles match in over six months (I teach a lot), and I hadn't played
mixed doubles but once in my life, when I was a junior. I guess I wasn't
ready because I started off serving up three doubles in the first game (I
average one to two a match). Things went downhill from there. To make a
long story longer, I started thinking about what my friend Peter had said
about knowing that he could "not get it back."
What a good opportunity for me to see if I can "get it back."
Down 0-2 quickly, I began to think about moving my feet, so I listened for
the sound of my feet moving on the court. At 0-3, I began thinking
about a return of serve method I call, "toss, hit, bounce, hit,"
which entails saying those four things as your opponent serves to you--"Toss-Hit-Bounce-Hit!"
This helps to focus only on the flight of the ball from the toss. Okay,
we get a game. It's now 1-3.
Then I focused on keeping relaxed on my serve and breathing deeply while
I prepared, bouncing the ball. Close game, we're down 1-4 but I manage to
gain a little feel and lose a little more fear. The next game was a good
game but we go down 1-5. Who knows whether it was the breathing or footwork,
but at 1-5, I start to get deeply focused on hitting the ball and I actually
begin to have fun playing and working on all these little projects I had
given myself out there.
Down 1-5, set point, I hit a winner backhand down the line on my return
of serve (better late than never!). From that moment we turned the game
around, eventually winning the set on my low, cross-court return of serve.
My partner and I looked at each other slightly bewildered.
The key thing to remember here is that, although I knew I was having
a rough start, I kept trying to focus on things that would allow me to calm
down and focus on the ball--and most importantly--have fun. Telling yourself
to "relax," "focus" or "concentrate" is only
going to make matters worse. Get yourself involved in playing well--give
your mind something with which to occupy itself. This is what allowed
me to get back into the game before it was too late. Have a list of
sure-fire list of anti-choking remedies, from breathing to visualization
to singing a song to yourself, and then make sure you can maintain the presence
and clarity to remember them when the pressure is on. These types
of relaxation hints can be found in the books, "The Real Spin On Tennis"
(publisher I.C.S. Books, Inc.) and "Winning Ugly." Also, ask your
coaches what they do when they need to recapture focus on their game.
Remember, you can always turn things around--it is completely in your
power. Always keep the faith and stay fascinated with the process of tennis.
Learn to control your mind, and let it help you. It ain't over till it's
over.
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